Friday, November 11, 2011

Let Us Remember

Deuteronomy 4:9

“Only be careful, and watch yourselves closely so that you do not forget the things your eyes have seen nor let them slip from your heart as long as you live. Teach them to your children and to their children after them.”

I remember as a young girl going up to the senitaf for the yearly memorial service. The moment of silence and the 21 gun salute. We would walk the great wall and read the many names of men and woman who gave their lives fighting for our freedom. I learned as a young child that this was the right thing to do because these many men and woman fought for our freedom and they have earned our respect. Without them amagine where we could be today.

I remember as a child I always respected, and was loyal to the veterens. It was something as children we were taught. I never really knew the actual feeling of losing a loved one in the war. I just honoured them as I was taught. I don’t think I ever saw a veteren as being more then an older aged person. You looked at them and the wrinkles and looks apon their faces told the whole story. Another thing is these older people were once young. In time I realized it is not all older people but many young people. I had such great respect and it was an important thing as a child. When I got older I still respected, and honoured our vetrens. When I looked at my life I realized that I respected but I tended to really forget the many things and values I had learned as a child. When I was a child rememberance day was a statitory holiday. Today the schools have their services but it is not like before I soon realized times had changed and so had I.

That was until a couple of years ago, when I came face to face with reality, first hand. Little did I know that I would experince it once again just over a year ago. Each time these where not only loved ones. They were also very young men. They had their lives taken from them far to young. These men both served and protected our country to the best of their abilities. They went above and beyound the call of duty. They gave their lives for us. These two young men are just two of many men and woman who give their lives for our freedom. I have also had a nephew, a couple of cousins and a couple friends who fight daily to protect our country. These people have made me come to an understanding that I never really had as a child. No one made any of these men and woman go. This was a choice that many make today. They feel they have a duty to serve and protect our country. They are aware that they may never see their loved ones again. This is a sacrific that they are willing to make for us. How can we take them for granted.

I have made it a priority to make sure my children have learned the meaning of Rememberance Day. As early as this morning my youngest daughter was getting ready for school all excited about the rememberance day service. She knew that at 11:00 she would not be with me. So she stopped and said mom can we have a moment silence before school for our friend Larry and all the other soldiers who have died and fight for us. So in my kitchen we had a small prayer and a moment of silence for all the many soliders who give of themselves daily. This is what rememberance day is really about. It is passing on the torch to our younger ones. It is teaching them about these many men and woman. It is making sure to pass on that message to their children just like our parents and loved ones have passed it on to us. These many men and woman give their lives for us. The least we can do is take the time to  make sure that they will never be forgotten.

Monday, November 7, 2011

Do Not Be Discouraged

     Have you ever taken a specific request to God and the answer seems to be no. Maybe that answer is wait? Have you ever seen a child go to a parent and the parent tells them to wait. It is a frustrating situation. They want it now. They do not want it 10 minutes from now or even months from now. It is needed now. Sometimes we take our requests to our heavenly father only to get the response wait. It can get to be very frustrating and discouraging.
     I know I have recently been going through a situation that my family has been praying for quite some time about. Every door we see an opening and think yes this is the door. God soon seems to close it as fast as it opened. It has been a long journey for us. I think in every situation it is hard when the reply is…wait. I don’t know about you but I am not a waiter. I want it all done at this very moment. When I go to my kids or someone and ask them to do something. I tend to ask once and if it is not done in the first five minutes. I tend to get frustrated and then I just go and do it myself. I do not like waiting for anything.
     So when God answers with wait it is one of the hardest things for me to do. About a week ago I was feeling so discouraged and down. I spoke with a friend of mine and was telling her that I just felt like giving up. Things were never going to work for me. When I finished talking to her I sat and thought about what I had said. I started remembering things that over the years I had been praying for. Some were answered right away. Some were answered without me even realizing they had been. Most prayers that I waited on and continued being faithful. They were answered one by one. Sometimes the answers were not what I thought it should be at that time. However they were all answered in his time. Then I looked into the bible. Many times gods answer was wait. Noah, Moses, Jonah, Those prayers that were not answered the exact way I wanted in time I could see why. God wants the very best for us. The bible tells us there is a season for everything (Ecclesiastes 3:1). God knows the right time and season for our prayers. Don’t be discouraged because God is in control.
     God also has a purpose for each and every one of us. He knows the right time and the plans he has for us. Hebrews 12:2 says: Let us fix out eyes on Jesus, the author and perfector of our faith. All we have to do is focus on him with faith believing. The bible also tells us in Romans 8: 28 that all things work together for good to those who love the Lord. All we need to do is stay focused on him and he will do the rest. So next time you ask and God’s answer is…Wait He knows your best interest. Trust in him and he will bring the answers to you.