Winning the Race

  

 Have you ever watched a baby who is just learning to walk? They stumble and they fall.  I remember when my oldest first started to walk we had moved to a new apartment and it has enamel floors. It was not as soft as the old apartment because there were no carpets. She would sit on the floor and not budge. She was clumsy and unstable and it hurt when she fell. If we stood with her and helped her she had enough faith in us that she would try. Step by step she learned to take bigger steps. Now she is running the race. This is a lot like our daily walk with Christ. Sometimes we stumble, sometimes we fall. When we first start to walk we seem to fall all the time. Sometimes we are fearful because we know that if we fall it will hurt. We need to lean on our father to help us walk. He is there to guide us and to pick us up when needed. He brushes us off and stands us on our feet again. A lot like a parent when their child falls.

Psalms 37:24 says though he stumbles, he will not fall, for the Lord upholds him with his hand.

    Little by little we learn to walk on our own with God by our side. Eventually as we read his word, and start to take the steps that we need to take to grow. We get better at it. Sometimes things are put in our way along the road. And sometimes we still fall. Once again God is there to brush us off. Many times along the way we are full of regret and we are hard on ourselves. We may become discouraged. God is there with his gentle hand to guide us and to help us along the way. He is never harsh he is never condemning. He is our father and he wants us to walk with him daily so we can win the race.

Stepping Out Of Your Comfort Zone

   

Today was a crazy day. We had a crazy snow storm last night. I was getting things together to start my day when I heard from the other room… “Can I go back to bed now?”  It was my eldest daughter. She had received a text from a friend claiming that school buses had been cancelled. After some researching on my part I discovered that it was not our school buses that had been cancelled, but the catholic school board buses. It put everyone behind because she did not want to get up and get ready for school because in her mind, there was no school.  She dreaded the thought of going out in the cold.   It did not matter what I said. I am Mom I was misunderstood. Her friend said there was no school.  I proceeded to tell her that did not matter what her friend said. I am Mom and she was going to school. I text one of my youngest daughters’ friends, to make sure that the bus had indeed picked her up and sure enough it had. This was not the news she wanted to hear. She knew that the bus was coming but still proceeded to object. She did finally catch her bus with much hesitation and complaints but in the end she went.  I am sure this little story sounds familiar to many as a child and as a parent.

Once they had left and I sat down with my tea and relaxed before proceeding onto my day. I thought about how this day reminds me of us sometimes when it comes to God’s direction on our lives. Sometimes God shows us, or directions us to do things and we don’t like the answers he has given us. So we object and we doddle along because we don’t want to do what he is directing us to do.  Just like my daughter this morning who was objecting because she wanted to stay in her comfort zone of a cozy warm home over drifting cold snow. To me that makes a lot of sense. I too would rather stay in my cozy warm home all day if I could.  Many times God’s direction takes us out of the comfort zone.

Maybe the direction is just to exercise our faith in God. First we need to listen to his voice. This could lead us to walk into uncomfortable situations.  It could also be that God is directing you to love the unloving or to forgive your enemy. It could be that he is directing you to reach out to those in need. Maybe it is to just let go and let God. I know my hardest challenge to just hand it over to God and leave it there. I pray for something and then the next minute I find I take it back. My comfort zone is trust. I have a problem of trusting because of things I have dealt with in my past. It takes a lot for me to put my trust in something or someone. Over the years my trust is better.  When you step out of your comfort zone at first it will never be comfy. As we give it to God and we step out in faith, it will become easier. Stepping out of your comfort zone is never easy but it is all worth it in the end.   

Whatever your comfort zone is I encourage you to take the steps to step out of your comfort zone today. 

Just Say The Word

Why do we pray? We pray for a variety of reasons. First of all if you had a friend and you never talked to him. Would your relationship grow? Would you get to know that person without talking? God has called us into a relationship with him. Relationships require communication. Prayer is communication between you and God. We are taught in the bible several times the importance to prayer. It draws us closer to him. Through prayer we become renewed and transformed. It reminds us that we are not totally dependent on ourselves but on God. It allows us to get to know God. He already knows everything about us. He created us and he even knows the numbers of hair on our head. God has a plan for each and everyone of us. How are we suppose to know what his plans are if we do not talk to him?

 God reveals himself to us thought prayer.

 “Teach me to do your will , for you are my God; may your good Spirit lead me on a level ground” (Psalms143:10)

 We pray because prayer relieves our weariness. God commands us to pray.

  “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest” (Mathew 11:28)

  “Then you will call upon me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you.You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart.” (Jerimiah 29: 12-13)

In this crazy world we pray for an antidote to anxiety. .

  “Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your request to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” (Philippians 4:6-7)

Most importantly we pray because God cares for us.

  “Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you.” (1Peter 5:7)

He is interested in every little detail of our lives. He wants to be involved in every aspect of our lives. He promised that he will be there for us in every way. He promises to listen to us, to help us and to protect us. When we pray we are surrendering our thoughts worries and desires to him. We pray because it shifts our attention to him. Who greater to hand all our cares over to, then the one that can do immeasurable things, greater then we could ever imagine. we can never limit God. He is capable to do anything. 

We gain wisdom and understanding when we pray.

  “If any of you lack wisdom, he should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to him.” (James 1:5)

  “Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us.” (Ephesians 3:20)

God also extends his power to us through prayer. This is so we may resist temptation.

  “Watch and pray so that you will not fall into temptation. The spirit is willing but the body is weak.” (Mathew 26:41)

With prayer you will always have an available shield of protection..

All you have to do is just say the word.

Waiting On The Lord

  

Have you ever had a request that you brought before God to only get the answer, WAIT!!

Isaiah 40:31 says But they that wait upon the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.

   God does not promise us an easy time of waiting. However he does promise us strength to those that trust and obey. He promises us that we will mount up with the wings of eagles. The bald headed eagle has a wing span of anywhere from 6-7 feet. And can weigh as much as 15 pounds. Their wing span is amazingly huge. Have you ever watched an Eagle Fly? If so you will see that they sore forever. They ca

   Throughout the bible God’s answer was wait. Could you imagine being in an ark with all kinds of animals in a closed in area, for 40 days and 40 nights and still have to wait for God to clear the land. I am sure Noah as faithful as he was. He was a little hopeful to get out of that ark soon. . He was probably so excited to finally get out of that old ark. I am sure he was very thankful when that last Dove did not come back. However he waited and God brought him through it.

   There is a saying, "If God brings you to it… He will bring you through it."

God works for those that love him and wait on him. As we open ourselves to him and his work. He blesses us beyond all measures. Some people look at waiting as being lazy or maybe indifferent. That is far from the truth. Waiting is being ready to obey God’s commands. It is kind of like a soldier on the battle fields waiting for that next command. The command center holds all the shots and timing can be everything. If that soldier goes before his call, He can ruin the whole mission. God is our command center. He says wait. We wait because we know his timing is right. If we were to do it in our timing, we could end up making an even bigger mess of things. When we have the patience and faith, and wait on God. He knows what is best and we will soar like eagles.

If you are waiting on something I encourage you to wait. The answer will come in God’s time. I have experienced this just recently. My family and I have been praying for something for almost 3 years. I was at a point that I thought well maybe God don’t care about my small needs. We are seeing door open that will bring that prayer request to reality.  All things will come to pass if we only wait and Trust. 

Give Me A Heart Like You

I was sitting at the computer checking in on a few things. I saw a saying that said “What a beautiful place it would be if people had hearts like Gods.”

Now for those who are not aware of this. I am partially dyslexic. The sentence I was reading was not what I thought. It read “What a beautiful place it would be if people had hearts like dogs.”I had a good chuckle once I realized what it really said. Then I thought about what I thought I read originally. What a beautiful place it would be if we had a heart like God’s. Could you imagine the difference it would be if we all had hearts of God. I took a look at God’s heart and what that meant.

God’s Heart sees people for who they are. He looks at their hearts. He does not judge them on the outward appearance. God looks at the inward. He loves unconditionally. He does not compare us for what we have or do not have. He does not compare us over who has committed what sin. He never compares us to others around us. He loves us for who we are. He loves us because he looks at the inside and he sees great things. He loves us so much. He loves us unconditionally.

 What does it mean to love unconditionally? The definition in the dictionary for unconditional says, “not limited in any way: complete and absolute.”

 I never really understood this meaning of love until I had my kids. I have always told my girls that no matter what they do or say, I will always love them. I promise no matter what I will always be there for them. They may hurt me and I may not always agree with their choices, however I promise to love them unconditionally. That is my job as their mother.

 If you looked back at the last 24 hours of your life. Would you see God’s heart? Would you see people for who they are? Would people see a change in your life? Would your family see something new? What about your co-workers? Would they sense a difference in you? What about people who are unemployed, or do not have the fortune that you and others have? Would you treat them differently? Would your friends and those who know you detect more joy? What about your enemies? Would you treat them with more mercy? What would God’s heart make you feel? Would it be any different than your own heart? What other differences would you feel? Maybe it would be less stressful; it could even affect your mood swings, your temper even your sleepless nights. Maybe you would see the sunset and God’s creation in a different light. Maybe you would see even death differently.

 What about your schedule and the business of your life. If God was to take over your heart, would anything change?

 The bible tells us in Philippians 2:5 that we are to have the same mindset as God with others. God loves us as we are but he does not want us to be the way we are. He wants us to be more like Jesus. He wants us to love with his heart. I am making a commitment to God today to have a heart like him. My prayer is that God will make me more like him. I encourage you to look at your life and to do the same.  Can you imagine what a beautiful place this would be if we all had a heart like God?

The Beauty Amongst The Weeds

I love to take hikes with my family. What better way for a family to bond then in the beauty of nature. It is peaceful. There are no interruptions. It creates amazing memories. I am also a lover of photography. It gives me a chance to get some amazing shots. A few weeks ago my family and I were out walking along the trails along the river. I saw some pretty amazing pieces of God’s artwork. I was reminded why I have always said one of my favorite artists is God. Every day he provides amazing blessings and sometimes we tend to take them for granted. Sometimes we are blinded by the negative things and not see the inner beauty of things. I walked along and took many pictures but the most beautiful were the wildflowers. Most people would refer them to the weeds. I never thought anything just that they were as beautiful as I looked through the eye of the lenses to capture the amazing beauty I could see around me. When I came home and downloaded the pictures. I had taken a picture of some golden rod beside the water. When I took a look at the picture, I thought wow the water and the vibrant yellow. What a sight. Many people would look at golden rod as a simple common weed. I saw something more that day. I saw the beauty of it. I also saw something else as I downloaded and edited the shot. I saw many little insects on the weeds. I never noticed these insects that were feeding off this plant. There was a moth, a bee as well as a couple of other insects. It was not just a weed it had so much value and good in it. I was soon reminded how many times people come into our lives. Many times people do not see any good they are nothing more than a weed. Maybe they are rough around the edges. Maybe you don’t like the way they speak or the way they act. Many times we react on what we see without really looking at that person. God uses all of us and our nature in different ways. It takes many people and many personalities to reach a world that is hurting. If we could only see them, through God’s eyes. So many times we turn people away because they don’t believe the same thing. Maybe they don’t act as we want them too. Maybe they are just not what you see as someone that God can use. It is funny how we look at people through our eyes and not God’s eyes. Funny how we tend to want to take things in our own hands and correct that person. We run right over never thinking on how our actions are reflecting on that person. All we see is that weed. We need to look through God’s eyes. If we did we would see a person who is the most caring person a vessel that is open and willing to be filled by God. A person that can reach so many lives. A person who not only can reach many but feed many. A person who is not as grumpy or miserable as you think. Maybe they are going through a situation that if you took the time you would see why they react that way to things. God uses the weeds because they are open. You may not always see the beauty in the weed but God does and he wants to bless you by bringing these weeds into your life. We need to ask God to allow us to see those weeds through his eyes. When we ask he will answer and we will be amazed at the beauty that God sees. Just like I did that day. The weed was no longer just a yellow weed but a beautiful creation of God that God uses every day. I encourage you to ask God to see people through his eyes. What does he see? I warn you however that when you do it will change your life.

Is Money The Answer To Happiness?

 

How many times have you heard someone say “If I could only win the lotery then I would be happy”.

Maybe you have thought this to yourself before.  I know I have been guilty of thinking “if I could only find a way to get the money and pay my debts off. I could buy a home. I could do so much if I had money to do it.”  Maybe you realize that money does not buy happiness but you think well if I had money…life would be so much easier. The question is does money really bring happiness?

I was sitting upstairs in my room sewing when my oldest daughter came running up the stairs. “Mom do you remember that guy that played in Mrs. Doubtfire?”  I looked at her and said yes that was Robin Williams. “Yes that is  him she said… Well Mom he died. “ I thought to myself wow that is such a great loss he made so many people smile. Her next words threw me for a bit of a loop. “ Mom they say he committed suicide.” My first reaction was no way. He has everything why would he do such a thing. I turned to her and said honey don’t believe everything you hear. They killed off Mylie Cyris last week remember. It is probably another scam. “No Mom it is true it was on the news and everything. “

I was in shoke that someone so popular. Someone with so much money and someone who had everything for them would take their life. I continues thinking. We don’t know the reason behind his death. We probably never will. This man so full of life. This man who made hundreds of people laugh. This man who people looked at though thought wow. I wish I could be as happy as him. He has fame,  fortune and money. He had it all.  I was soon reminded money can’t buy you everything. His death is a great tragedy. It will be devistating to many fans. In the end he was not truly happy. If a man who seemed to have everything was not 100% happy then is is possible to find true happiness.

The answer is Yes.  How do we find happiness you ask? Happiness is not something we seek. True happiness isn’t found in things. It isn’t found in having something or doing something. Being happy is a choice. How can we chose to be happy? If you chose to wait until everything is perfect and there are no stressful situations in your life. You will never be happy.

It is makling a choice to set the right attitude for the day. Much like setting your alarm in the morning. It is a daily choice that we make.  Unfortunaley life has so many challenges to offer. I  have heard people say that if God is real why do bad things happen.   God does what he can to protect us. He never promised us a bed of roses.  There is evil in the world and because of that bad things happen. God made us as individuals. He made us to make our own decisions.  He made us to think for ourselves.  Satan is here to steal our happiness. He is here to hurt us in anyway possible. It is up to us with God’s help to defeat him.

John 10:10

“The thief does not come except to steal and kill and to destroy.  I have come so that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly.”

How do we get happiness?

 Keep a positive attitude. Looking at the positive. When you focus on the negative you get a negative attitude. Do not allow your joy to be stolen from the negativity that happens in everyones  life every day. Laugh more at yourself and at the things around you. Laughter is a great medicine.  Forgive yourself and others for mistakes. Forgivness is such a great feeling. Unforgivness only brings you heartache and bitterness.  Learn to enjoy God and others  around you.  Look at the good and happiness will find you. Too many times we look at the stresses and the garbage in our everyday lives. In reality happiness is all around us when we change our outlook. When we decide to let go of the garbage and focus on the beauty no matter what comes our way. That is when we will find true happiness.